Christians Do It Better

By Christina Laun

Whether you want to read up on sex before marriage or curious about what your contraceptive options are as a married couple, navigating your sexuality as a Christian can sometimes be difficult. Here are 100 places that you can look to for guidance and advice on exploring your sexuality without compromising your faith.

General Resources

Look to these sites for some general advice on sex for Christians.

1. A Study of Christian Sexuality: Rev. Bill McGinnis lays out some basics of Christian sexuality, including the purposes and rules that most Christians feel are appropriate.
2. Christian Sexuality 101: Learn the basics of Christian sexuality through this review of two books that deal with the subject.
3. Christian Sex Rules: Find out what’s allowed in the bedroom and what isn’t in this short article.
4. Sexuality in the Christian Tradition: Download these videos to find out how to explore your sexuality within your faith.
5. Human Sexuality from a Christian Perspective: This site will lay out Christian sex for you, from the positions of the church and the bible to dealing with the implications for people in a variety of situations.
6. Human Sexuality in the Christian Life: Check out the online version of this text to learn how the Mennonite religion deals with sexuality and biblical restrictions.
7. Christian Sexuality: Sharing God’s Love: David Eagle of the Mennonite Brethren Herald explores ways Christians can understand sexuality in the scriptures.
8. Christian Perspectives on Sexuality and Gender: This Google book provides several articles on topics like marriage, gender roles, the family and more.
9. Research: Christian Sex Better than Kama Sutra: Give this article a read to find out how Christian sex may actually be better than sex had by non-Christians.
10. Sex and the Supremacy of Christ: Read this online book to explore the ideal pursuit of sexuality as well as learn to avoid falling victim to the sins of sex.
11. Desiring God Sexuality Resources: This site provides an extensive collection of resources that can answer all of your questions about sex and your faith.
12. About Sex and Marriage: Here you’ll find five of the most commonly asked questions Christians have about sex and marriage.
13. Christlike Sex: Read a review and excerpts from the book A Celebration of Sex in this short but informative article.
14. Sexuality in the Modern World: Janet Smith explores the many aspects of sex and Christianity including marriage, children and family planning.
15. The Christian Enjoyment of Sex: Get some encouragement and advice on exploring your sexuality as a Christian from this article.
16. The Joy of Christian Sex: Give this article a read to get some illumination on the reasons why Christian sex can be so satisfying.

Christian Sexuality Organizations and Stores

Check out these sites for support and aids to help you in the bedroom.

17. Center for Sexuality and Christian Life: The Claremont School of Theology offers this center, designed to help Christians discuss and learn about their sexuality.
18. Intimate Issues: This organization is a great place to learn about God’s perspective on sex and how you can change your view of Christian sex.
19. The Marriage Bed: Here you’ll find everything you need to learn about sex from a Christian perspective, including information on the basic biology as well as how to keep things interesting between married couples.
20. WhollyLove: Check out this site for loads of resources on helping you improve your lovemaking experience.
21. PureIntimacy: This ministry deals with issues of sex and Christianity from homosexuality to general intimacy.
22. Abstinence Clearinghouse: If you’re aspiring to become or stay abstinent, this organization can provide you with resources that can make that easier.
23. Intimate Attractions: This retailer specializes in selling intimate products that are presented in a classy and appropriate manner.
24. Book22: If you’re looking for some things to spice up your bedroom, this Christian-run business may be just what you’re looking for.
25. My Beloved’s Garden: Those who want to buy sexual products in a safe, non-pornographic environment, check out this site.
26. Covenant Spice: You can honor your religion while since enjoying sex with your spouse and make it more exciting with books and products form this company.
27. The Pure Bed: There is no nudity or filthy material on this site, which sells marital aids for happily married Christian couples.
28. GodMadeSexforYou: Check out this site to learn how you can enjoy the intimacy and love God intended.

Sex Before Marriage

Have questions about your committed relationship? Find out what you need to know from these resources.

29. When Is Sex Before Marriage Acceptable?: This article explores how the bible feels about sex before marriage and gives resources for those looking to restore their sexual purity.
30. Why Should I Save Sex for Marriage?: If you’re questioning whether or not to save sex for marriage give this article a read.
31. What’s Wrong With Sex Before Marriage?: Find out a few reasons why you should keep sex for the person you marry in this article.
32. One Christian’s View of Sex Before Marriage: This young girl shares her thoughts on sex before marriage and lists reasons why she wants to wait.
33. The Romeo and Juliet Effect: Why Christians Keep Having Sex Before Marriage: Sometimes telling someone not to do something is precisely why they want to do it. This author explores why this is sometimes the case with sex before marriage in this article.
34. Is Sex Before Marriage OK If You Love Each Other?: Get some biblical support for why you should avoid sex before marriage even if you’re in love.
35. Three Lies About Sex Before Marriage: Many people tell themselves things that help rationalize why they have sex before marriage. Learn what these are in this article.
36. Why You Should Not Have Sex Before Marriage: A Christian Perspective: Learn the myriad of reasons why Christianity discourages sex before marriage.
37. Sex Before Marriage: 10 Risks: Sex is never without its risk, but learn several reasons why it’s particularly risky for those who are unmarried.
38. Premarital Sex: Not a Biblical Conflict: This controversial article gives an alternate take on Christian sex before marriage.

For Married Couples

Get some advice on keeping things interesting and enjoying being married on these sites.

39. Holy Sex!: Learn the best places to find Christian sex advice from this article and how Christians are taking a new approach to sex.
40. Is Anal Sex a Sin for Married Christian Couples?: If you’re looking for new and exciting ways to explore your partner sexually, find out if they’re ok with your religion in this article.
41. 5 Sex Tips for Christian Newlyweds: Newlyweds can check out this article to get a few pointers on enjoying sex with one another.
42. Basics of Sex for Christian Husbands: This article can be a helpful read for husbands who are trying to figure out how to please their wives.
43. How to Spice up a Christian Marriage: Get a few basic tips on making your married sex life a little more exciting in this article.
44. You Aren’t Safe from Adultery: Learn how adultery can find you, whether single or married and how you can prevent it.
45. The Joys of Christian Sex Toys: While the very thought might make you blush, sex toys can be an acceptable way to bring fun into the bedroom as this article discusses.
46. The Nature of Sex and Its Pastoral Implications: Written for pastors, this article can still provide some valuable reading on understanding the relationship between human sexuality and Christianity.
47. Is Oral Sex Biblically Wrong for Married Couples?: Find out if your desire to experiment in bed contradicts your faith in this article.
48. The Effects of Prior Pornography Use on Marriage: Many feel pornography is harmless, but this article discusses how it can have a lasting impact on your relationships.
49. Sex and the Christian Marriage: This article explores how sex can be a big part of Christian marriage and understanding it is key to enjoying it.
50. Making Home: Sex In a Christian Marriage: learn some of the biggest fallacies about sex and how changing your mind about them can improve your sex life and relationship with your partner.
51. 7 Barriers to Fulfilling Married Sexuality: Read this article to find out some common things that often stand in the way of truly satisfying sex.
52. Sex, From a Married Christian Woman’s Point of View: This article is geared primarily towards young women, and serves to give some advice on sex in marriage.

Contraception

Contraception is a difficult issue for many Christians. Learn about your options from these resources.

53. Contraception: Why Not: Explore some reasons why contraception may not fit in with your particular Christian beliefs in this presentation.
54. The Contraception Guidebook: Learn all the ins and outs of contraception use as a Christian in this helpful Google book.
55. Christian Birth Control: This site provides a multitude of information on birth control. All types are presented in an easily understandable manner to help you choose what’s right for you.
56. Christian Contraception - What Is It and Who Can Use It: Check out this article to get the basics of contraception down and decide if it’s right for you.
57. Christian Couples and Contraception: You and your partner can check out this article to find out what kind of contraceptive methods you might be interested in.
58. Birth Control: This article from the Marriage Bed, takes an educational approach to birth control, laying out your options for you.
59. Contraception in Today’s Christian Landscape: This Catholic-focused article discusses reasons why contraception shouldn’t be used and how young couples should be educated.
60. Christ in Your Family: Thoughts on Christian Marriage and Contraception: Lutherans should check out this article for official advice and information about how birth control works with your beliefs.
61. Christian Views on Contraception: This Wikipedia article provides readers with a simple layout of what different Christian groups believe about contraception.
62. Catholic Answers: Birth Control: As a Catholic, you can learn the church’s stance on birth control from this informative site.

Sex and Aging

Learn how to deal with issues of sex as you get older in these Christian-focused articles.

63. Christian Sexuality and the Ethic of Pharmaceutical Enhancement: Sometimes older men need a little help getting in the mood for sex. Find out the Christian perspective on the use of these medications in this article.
64. The Effects of Aging on Sexuality: This Christian focused site discusses how sex may change as you age.
65. Six Steps to Better Senior Sex: Follow these six steps to learn how to have enjoyable sex with your husband or wife at any age.
66. Equality of Sexes Helps Assure Sexual Satisfaction With Age: Find out how having an equal partnership with your spouse can help ensure you both enjoy sex as you get older.
67. Sex and the Senior Citizen: Learn how you can still enjoy sex into your golden years with some advice from this article.
68. Senior Sex: Tips for Older Men: The Mayo Clinic provides this guide for older men on how they can work to improve their sexual performance and desire.
69. Common Male Sexual Dysfunction: This Christian advice columnist discusses some sexual dysfunction issues that men may encounter as they age.

Childbirth and Parenting

Learn everything you need to know about giving birth and raising children as a Christian from these articles and resources.

70. Christian Girls and the Allure of Sexuality: Learn what some of things are that lure young Christian girls to have sex before marriage so you can educate your teens.
71. The Sex Lives of Christian Teens: Think your teenager would never have sex? You may want to think again as this article discusses.
72. How Does a Christian Parent Deal With Sex, Drugs and Violence?: Check out this article to get some pointers on how you can discuss these delicate issues with your teen or young adult.
73. Gentle Christian Mothers: Mothers can come together and share their child birthing and parenting experiences on this site.
74. Christian Childbirth: Enjoy childbirth the way it was meant to be– as a gift from God– with some advice from this site.
75. Life Before Birth: Understand how your baby is growing and developing, with a Christian perspective, from Christian Answers.
76. When Your Christian Teen Starts Dating: Learn how to keep your teen on the right path once they reach dating age.
77. How Christian Parents Talk About Sex: Have you talked to your teen about sex yet? This article discusses some of the common mistakes Christian parents make in talking to their kids about sex.
78. Spiritual Sex Ed: Combine your faith with sex ed through some help from this article.
79. Sex and the Christian Parent: Being a parent is never easy but you can get some advice on talking to your kids about your faith and sex here.

Sex and the Single Person

How can you deal with your sexuality as a single person and a Christian? These resources can give you some advice.

80. Masturbation and the Bible: Learn what the bible has to say about masturbation and whether or not you should indulge.
81. Sex and the Single Girl: Being single can be hard, so learn how to manage your sexuality when alone with some help from this article.
82. Singles: Celebrate Your Sexuality: This article encourages single Christians to celebrate their sexuality rather than feel bad about it.
83. Missions and Masturbation: If you are planning on undertaking a mission, then read how masturbation may sidetrack you.
84. Sex and the Single Man: Download this sermon to get some insight into how to handle your sexual desires when unmarried.
85. Sex and the Single Christian: This article explores the difficulty that many Christians have in staying celibate when they’re single, despite the best intentions.
86. Benefits of Being a Single Christian: Find out some ways to help keep yourself pure when you’re a single Christian.
87. Can’t Get No Satisfaction: Check out this short article for some support if you feel guilty for engaging in a little more hanky panky than you normally would.
88. AFA Journal: Sex and the Single Christian: Single Christians can get some advice and guidance on dealing with their sexuality from this article.
89. What the Bible Says About Masturbation: Get the definitive word on what the scripture says about masturbation from this site.
90. Masturbation: God’s Great Gift to Us: Learn why some Christians think you should embrace masturbation in this article.
91. Sex and the spirit: SOS for Single Christian Sisters: Directed at African American females, this article provides support for women who are searching for a committed relationship while trying to deal with their sexual needs.

Miscellaneous

Find a variety of helpful suggestions and information on these sites.

92. A Proposal for Christian Pornography: While you may not agree with the points made in this article, it presents an alternate view of pornography for Christians.
93. Does the Bible Regard Same-Sex Intercourse as Intrinsically Sinful?: Learn how same-sex relations are viewed in the bible in this article.
94. One Christian Man’s Journey Through Sexuality: Check out this NPR story on one man who’s struggled with his sexuality and faith.
95. Can Sex Everyday for 30 Days Strengthen a Christian Marriage?: Many churches are encouraging couples to have more sex and this article discusses whether or not this is an effective way of strengthening their faith and relationships.
96. Sex and the Liberal Christian: Feel you’re a bit more liberal than some of your Christian brethren? You may find this article an interesting read then.
97. In the Biblical Sense: If you’re looking for a good Christian advice columnist check out this article, which discusses several.
98. Sex, Gender and Christian Ethics: Learn how your faith is related to sex and gender roles in this free Google book.
99. Is All This Christian Sex Talk a Good Idea? This article discusses how talking too openly about sex may not be the good thing it’s supposed to be.
100. What is Christian Sex?: Find out how Christians and other religions view the concept of Christian sex in this blog post.

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